(bdsm) where can a 15 year old go to get started in it.?

ok i dont want to hear your to young or its illegal becuz thats not what i asked. i just want to get a little more information on it first hand befor i try it and if u can also give me place where you can try it or find a master that would be amazing to. ive triend to search online but all i keep coming across is stories(not gonna lie really like them) and thats not real information. is there any kind of websites maybe that i can talk to someone on anonymously or maybe a number i can call idk but iv been trying for a while now to try and find somethig in this area i feel like im alone when it comes to things like this and like no one else really understands what i want. i really dont even really want sex(even though im well aware thats a big part of it) i just love the idea of being in someone elses complete control. please help me fing something. i live in washington dc so any thing in the maryland, virgina,or maybe(would rather not but will if i have no other choice) newyork would be good thank you.